Unplugging does not make you a martyr.

I am so sick of coming across blog posts about people lamenting how hectic and insane their lives are, and one weekend they finally turned off the computer, TV, and cell phone, and oh my gods there’s a whole world out there!

These posts are most often inundated with comments that are all you-go-girl in sentiment. Commenters gushing that they, too, really need to unplug and just get away from it all. You are a god among men for making this discovery and I now must follow your lead.

Now, I’m so intertwined with technology that I have joked that I am “half-human/half-internet”. I work online. I play online. I check on various social sites multiple times a day. I email all the time. Instant messages. But do you know what I also do?

I read books. Every night before bed. I don’t interact with friends in person a whole lot, but I do sometimes and it’s great. I cook up new recipes. Try new things. Walk the dog. Travel every now and then. I get out. That’s called balance.

I often—and not even consciously—disconnect for a whole day at a time. Or multiple days. Does a feeling of enlightenment wash over me? Nope. Do I itch to get back on my phone or computer? Nope. Do I think I’ve found some ground-breaking new way of life independent of technology? Nope.

If you can’t integrate and find balance with technology and non-technology, then I get it. You’re addicted, there’s a problem. But don’t act all high-and-mighty and like a martyr who’s done something no one else has done, and you-need-to-try-this-new-thing-I-discovered-called-outside! It’s always been there. If someone like me, a half-human/half-internet hybrid, can unplug without issue or surprise, then you can too.

–Ang


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13 Comments

  1. Posted Sunday, February 12, 2012 at 12:40 PM | Permalink

    I don’t watch TV, where the fuck is my epiphany about the world out there? :| Maybe my laptop is on too much to experience it…

    • Ang
      Posted Sunday, February 12, 2012 at 12:47 PM | Permalink

      Haha. It’s just so ridiculous! I have a feeling it’s one of those mommyblogger circle-jerk things. “Look how much better I am than you.”

  2. Posted Sunday, February 12, 2012 at 12:43 PM | Permalink

    Haha, soooo truuuuue. It’s funny how so many people these days think spending X amount of time without some kind of technology is such a Big Deal. :P It’s definitely nice, but nothing all that ground-breaking!

    • Ang
      Posted Sunday, February 12, 2012 at 12:54 PM | Permalink

      Exactly!

  3. Posted Sunday, February 12, 2012 at 1:01 PM | Permalink

    The funny thing is, that while I’m on holiday visiting various sights and shopping, I don’t miss it. But for some reason, 2-3 hours after I get back (unless I’m sleeping) the first thing I do I go online. :P

    I guess it’s a good thing that there are some things I’m really old-fashioned about:
    - reading books (if I can help it)… I even refused to buy myself a kindle :P
    - making notes about work tasks( I hate doing it in txt files, cause I always lose those. So do my colleagues incidentally :P but they still wonder why I write them down in a notebook)

    And after all this, I still consider myself joined at the hip with my PC :P

    • Ang
      Posted Tuesday, February 28, 2012 at 12:57 PM | Permalink

      I hear you! First thing when I wake up or get home, I power up the laptop. I’m still somewhere between paper and Word for making notes about things. Complex “notes” I do in Excel (like lists for moving/packing or researching job opportunities). For school, I prefer paper for notes so I don’t get distracted by ooo internets.

  4. Posted Wednesday, February 15, 2012 at 10:26 PM | Permalink

    Sounds like some women/girls trying to act ironic and funny. The “omg there’s an OUTSIDE” is so 2005. :B

    • Ang
      Posted Tuesday, February 28, 2012 at 12:57 PM | Permalink

      LOL srsly!

  5. Posted Friday, February 17, 2012 at 3:17 PM | Permalink

    LOL

    I tell people all the time to step away from the computer. The internet is not the world, but some think it is. I also do a lot online but I am not afraid of leaving my computer.

    This cracked me up because people forget that…there was this whole world BEFORE THE INTERNET and before computers.

    Too many people, have forgotten that.

    • Ang
      Posted Tuesday, February 28, 2012 at 12:59 PM | Permalink

      A world before the internet? Like when there were dinosaurs? :D

  6. Posted Saturday, February 18, 2012 at 8:50 AM | Permalink

    Amen.

  7. Posted Sunday, May 6, 2012 at 6:03 PM | Permalink

    this is so relevant.

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